How to deal with the bitterness of love 101
Actually,
I’m not doing this entry because of the bitterness that I’m feeling right now.
I’m doing this just because I want to. Anyways, there is such thing that I
noticed when you are in love. Don’t think that I’m some kind of cupid and what
the hell do I know! I’m just a 15 year old girl, NBSB and fell in love with a
jerk. This blog entry maybe will be regrettable. I really don’t know where to
start because I can feel that there can be lots of things running through this.
Ayyy! Okay let’s start.
Love
is one of the best things you’re going to experience. It can make you feel
super damn happy BUT love is also the one that can make you cry excessively.
Whatever kind of person you are, what gender you belong to, there is always
love. What we’re talking about this is about loving someone you don’t know or
just came up to your life. There is no person who’s never been in love. I
myself don’t know if I already experienced it and YES it is because I’m only
fifteen but what this is about is my opinion and outlook about love.
"The moment people come to know love, they run the risk of carrying
hate”
I
actually got this from one of the anime that I love. I guess this is true. When
you experienced how happy love is, that is also the time you experience how
cruel it was. You’ll curse someone because you hate. But the truth is, there
should be no space for hatred. When you truly love someone, you should let them
go. You should not prison him in a world where he doesn’t want to live. What
will be the benefit of being together if you’re not happy or you’re the only
one that is happy? It is like you’re stabbing yourself voluntarily. You’ll be
the one to kill yourself. We all know that at first you’re not going to be
happy, going to feel so alone but God destined someone to be with you, the one
that will love you whole-heartedly.
Sometimes,
couples gave up and break up whenever they have problems or sometimes, they are
just doing ‘cool off’. I think that is very unhealthy. As a couple, you need to
be strong together. How can you reach the future together if your solution to
your problem is breaking up? What I meant is you should solve them together.
Solving problems together can strengthen the bonds as a couple.
Some people, on the other hand, hurt themselves because they want their partner be bothered by conscience. Pity is not the one that will solve your problems. You love someone just because of pity. Can you accept the fact that someone loves you just because he/she feels pity? Can you?! And hurting yourself physically is not the best way on how to deal with the problems of love. CRYING would work.
Some people, on the other hand, hurt themselves because they want their partner be bothered by conscience. Pity is not the one that will solve your problems. You love someone just because of pity. Can you accept the fact that someone loves you just because he/she feels pity? Can you?! And hurting yourself physically is not the best way on how to deal with the problems of love. CRYING would work.
DON’T
STICK WITH SOMEONE JUST BECAUSE YOU FEEL ALONE.
Happiness is very
important in a relationship. How can both of you say that you’re still in a
relationship if both of you are not happy together? Loving someone just because
you don’t want to feel alone is the cruellest thing that I’m going to consider
about love. That’s very bad. And that thing can also consider you as a loner
though you’re with him/her. Remember you’re just hurting yourself and your
partner. Let them go and find someone out there, waiting someone like you.
I do believe that you
love someone just because and they love you just because. You feel so proud to
be with him or her just because. I guess, there should be no specific reason
why you have to love someone. You love him/her because you do, you’re happy and
you’re a better person whenever you’re together.
Be true, ALWAYS. –RM
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