We’ve always gone through for so many insecurities in life. Of course, in the reality of life, it always starts with the big things because we can literally see them. And we want them. We need them because you can feel such imperfection in your life without them.
However, due to this kind of thinking, we never thought of something else other than that. It’s either we get obsess or we’re going to stuck ourselves in a life we always not wanted to be. But you cannot even imagine that you have a choice
At the very first place, you’re not going to feel that kind of insecurity if you there is no one who told you about it. They might judge you. They will and you can’t do anything about it anymore ‘coz maybe, you really are. But it doesn’t matter what they say to you, maybe it’s true, but you need to look out from it. You need to feel proud about it because once you get insecure about that thing it’s totally going to make things worse.
Being wasted in love is another thing that makes insecurities. You’re always going to say that the reason why you’re not getting love is because you’re ugly. That’s why you’re getting obsessed with the things that you shouldn’t be doing. But you don’t know that it has a bad effect on you and actually some are getting worse.
Whenever we promise things to do, we’re not actually doing it. Instead, we’re overdoing it. For example, in taking diets, you promised not to eat and exercise. Let’s say that you really did exercising, but you didn’t eat your breakfast well. So the tendency is you’re going to eat a lot more maybe on lunch or dinner because you’re literally starving. So that’s bad and it can actually make you gain some more pounds tho’ you’re exercising.
So don’t rush things because time will come that you’re going to be beautiful enough in the eyes of everyone. You’re actually going to find the one’s you love even though you didn’t get a little bit prettier.
Once you think that you’re too fat, you’re also going to act it out, like you’re truly fat so the thing is some people are also going to think that you’re fat because that is how you do it. Well you’re not fat. Maybe, you have excess fats at your body but you can work it out. There is nothing wrong with your body but there is really something wrong at you that are why you always feel fat and you’re always going to look fat.
Those people who are you’re getting insecure with; of course, you can also do what they are doing. If you’re really amazed on what they did, actually you can do better. But that thing is not to compete, just self-satisfaction. Life is too short to not to fulfil those kind of things but it is actually good to see that the one’s you’re getting insecure with turned out beneficial to you.
There are always simple words to remember, Transform insecurities into motivation. This won’t let you fail; it will lead you to success.
Be True, ALWAYS- RM
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